thinking about having kids?

i know that raising children is really hard. not only you need to have money, you need to have time, you need consistency in monitoring them, you need to instill proper values, you need to cultivate creativity, and balance it with fun as well. i honestly dont know how parents out there did it, x kira yang beranak satu...mahupun yang beranak sampai 13 orang.

every child perangainye x sama. the same "module pengajaran" that you use utk seorg anak, belum tentu works utk anak yg lain. belum lagi mengambil kira faktor luaran yang boleh mempengaruhi judgement dan mentaliti seseorang anak itu. kalau terlalu dimanjakan, nnt anak tu jd spoiled brat. kalau x manja sgt, nnt anak tu rasa terabai. kalau too much attention, anak tu rasa trapped. kalau lack of attention, anak tu akan cari attention dr org lain. kalau bg pegi sekolah sekular, nnt xknal agama. kalau suro pegi sekolah agama, belum tentu keluar die akan praktikkan ape yg die blaja. so...where can one draw the line??? what should a parent do to get some peace bile mereka dh tua. sepatutnya bile semua dh besar, diorg boleh rileks dgn hati yg senang. ni x, dh tua pun byk masalah lg.

to kids out there : tolonglah. ape yg susah sgt korg nk fikir. take responsibilities lah. korg akan run this country, have some sense of belonging. ni sume nk senang, keje xnak, tp nk kaya je memanjang. semua start with a hardship. use ur motherfucking brain.

to parents : jgn la asyik nk mengadap facebook je. ataupun asyik duk fikir bile nk beli rumah baru, bile nk tukar keta baru, bile nk beli baju mahal. bile ada prob, bukannye nk face the prob, but instead u run away from it dan pegi cari pompuan/lelaki lain yg konon2 lebih fun dr wife/husband kau yg kt rumah tu. take responsibility of your life.

berubahlah...jgn menyusahkan org lain

*entry ini tiada kaitan dgn yg hidup ataupun yg mati ( dengan tgn di dada, dan mata pandang ke atas. "sentap hati mak nak")