Wednesday, February 23, 2011

benchmark your self

quote from chris rock ( u can view his series of stand up comedy in youtube ) :

"men could not go back in sex and women could not go back in lifestyle".

if a man was spoiled by his ex gf by a constant attention and commitment to lick his shaft. ALL his gfs after that will have to lick as well. there's no question of "euuww..." and such. yeah ladies, blame his ex gf for teaching him.

and for women, if her ex bf spoiled her by bringing her to luxury vacations, ALL her bfs after that will have to bring her to some luxury vacations starting from that point on.

that's why misunderstandngs happen between men and women, one party is not getting as much from another. its mainly because each party already have some expectations planted in their mind and it became a hampering factor when they're not getting it from the current relationship.

in a normal world, this situation is called BENCHMARKING. therefore if something is wrong in your relationship, try to dig ( in an unstalker-ish way ) what he/she has been getting all this while and although i hate to say this, try to keep up with it.

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