I do...but I don't

There are two dilemmas that rattle the human skull:

1) How do you hang on to someone who won't stay?
2) And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?

I'm in a wedding mode today. Just got back from one. Never liked going to one of those. Has rarely believe in the constitution. Has made all effort to avoid the topic. Have not met anyone who dislikes it. Encounters countless individuals who breach it. And still trying hard to understand the whole idea of it.

"The real act of marriage takes place in the heart, not in the ballroom or church or synagogue. It's a choice you make - not just on your wedding day, but over and over again -- and that choice is reflected in the way you treat your husband or wife."

cheers~